2020 Vision So much talk this year about 2020 vision since we have a special year! Clarity 2020 Vision I’m walking into 2020 with a crystal clear heart & mind. If you owe me anything don’t worry about it and you are welcome. If you’ve wronged me in any way in the past, then … [Read more...]
Blurry Vision
Blurry Vision You may have ‘blurry vision’ without even knowing it! My Recent Experience A few weeks ago, I was dog sitting for a dog that I took for 3 long daily walks. One in the morning right when we woke up; one in the afternoon between day/evening client sessions; and one at night … [Read more...]
Divorce’s Ongoing Impact
A resource guide for families in any stage of divorce “If you work as hard planning your divorce as you did planning your wedding, being divorced can simply be the next great chapter of your life.” ~ From the preface of the book ~ “Speaking Out: Voices of … [Read more...]
It’s Not About You
It's Not About You Remember the last time someone responded in such a way that you were taken aback? Maybe it was a fellow colleague or a friend or maybe even a family member that made a comment about something you did and you were wondering why they reacted that way. If you were to see someone … [Read more...]
What Prison Do You Have Yourself In?
What Prison Do You Have Yourself In? Tears were streaming down my face as I sat there staring at the trees. Where did this come from? Why was this happening to me? For many years, I would deny that I had any feelings about my family situation. I just didn’t want to talk about … [Read more...]
If someone tells you you hurt them
If someone tells you you hurt them, you don't get to decide that you didn't. “If someone tells you you hurt them, you don’t get to decide that you didn’t.” Think about this quote for a moment from both perspectives. Have you ever had someone say to you, “Get over it. I didn’t mean anything by … [Read more...]
I Don’t Think We Have One
"I've been thinking about our relationship, I don't think we have one." This was a line from a new Netflix film called, 'Otherhood'. The person being spoken to disagreed until the point was made clear when they were unable to share 10 things they knew about this immediate family … [Read more...]
It’s Okay to Ask for Help
It's okay to ask for help. Yes, I DO Deserve Good Things. And NO, it's never 'too much' to be receiving! These are the lessons I have learned recently. The icing on the cake was recently when I was the speaker at the Shakopee, Minnesota chapter of Polka Dot … [Read more...]
You Look Like Your Mom
Back when I lived in the same city where my parents lived, I used to hear the phrase, “You look like your Mom!!” ALL. OF. THE. TIME. Since I moved out of state a couple of decades ago, I didn’t have to hear that any more. Part of it was that I wanted to be able to have my own … [Read more...]
Is That Really Supporting You?
What happens when someone brings up the topic of family? Even in supposed ‘support group’ FaceBook pages designed for people who are estranged from family, when there is a conversation going on there can be a HUGE difference of opinion. Is That Really Supporting … [Read more...]
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